Bucket List: Find a funeral, cremation provider you trust

Contributed by Brackett Funeral Home, Brunswick

Choosing a cremation or funeral provider is something many of us avoid until the need arises, because it touches on a subject we’re not entirely comfortable with.
But, like choosing a doctor or a dentist, it’s actually a decision that, the more informed and prepared we are, the more likely it is to ensure a meaningful experience and a more meaningful life.

Decades ago the choice was an obvious one – most families had one local funeral home they’d used for generations. But in today’s world, where families are scattered and ties to the community are more tenuous, the choices are far more numerous and can often be daunting. Becoming better informed now will make decision-making easier when the time comes.
Make sure that the funeral or cremation providers you are considering are all licensed and have a good reputation in the community. Don’t be afraid to visit these providers personally and spend time with the staff who will care for you and your family. Get a sense for the manner in which they conduct their care.
Ask yourself “Is the facility well-kept and secure? Is staff conscientious and professional? Do their services represent the care I and my family deserve?”
Funeral and cremation professionals are an important resource in the community and can help you plan a meaningful memorial. In lieu of holding public services, they guide families through all the remaining decisions designed to honor loss and live healthily with grief.
Ultimately, it’s most important that you find a provider you trust. Within the offerings of a reputable full service provider, you should find a variety of options to meet your financial needs and wishes. Financial constraints should never exclude dignified care. Many providers work in conjunction with municipal welfare offices, as well as, in-state trust services to accommodate families of all financial means. Be sure to ask what payment options might be available to you.
You can locate National and Maine Funeral Director Association members by visiting www.rememberingalife.com or www.mainefuneraldirectors.org.Being prepared and planning in advance means your family can avoid making decisions in the stressful time immediately following death. Let you
r remaining bucket-list be made of more exciting adventures and experiences, with the peace of mind that comes with knowing all that’s left is to live well and fully.

NFDA and MFDA member The Brackett Funeral Home has been a family-owned and operated service in Brunswick for more than 150 years. Contact and Care information can be found at www.brackettfh.com or by calling 207-725-5511. Follow their WE CELEBRATE life campaigns on Facebook for upcoming community events and promotions.